Again, and from the other thread...you, Simon, talked about if you posted a pic of an 18y.o. gf who looke "youthful" that you didn't want to be called to task for it....What 41 year old man is looking for a teen that looks even younger than, even, 18 and isn't in need of a therapist to work through that? You need help from a licensed professional, as you are in big time denial of being attracted to kids, even though your words tell the story that you seek someone that looks younger than a barely legal adult.
I didn't say that...you did, by your words in the other thread.
As for what a friend over may have said...
They're okay with you being 41 and liking to be with underage looking people..
not much merit in that, as they may not see the problem for themselves.
Honestly, the more you type on this topic,
the more you sound like you aren't defending Greg, but are trying to rationalize your interest in girls who look like kids.
Save the breath(Or type), as your rationalizing isn't going to EVER convince me that it is okay to screw kids.
Here's a thought...try working toward being attracted, and only touching, someone who's age description doesn't have "teen" in it and they can, at minimum, legally buy alcohol in all the U.S.A..
Kids deserve the chance to grow up, enjoy some college time with people of their age, without some old guys trying to take advantage of their naivity.
If they are looking for a "Daddy figure", than be the one that isn't trying to be incestuous(figuratively) with them...
Be a mentor, not the one who screws them up even more.
Nuff said,
Betcha